Now this isn’t one of those cheesy ass lists that will get you no where, BUT I do have a gracious amount of concern for the well-being of others. I basically want people to not give a f***k the healthy way, m’kay?
What we need to first realize is that we can’t control what other people think about us, PERIOD. This is by far the hardest step to complete because we’re so used to trying to control what we can not, and don’t tell me “I already know that!” Second, we need to take time to ourselves and actually enjoy it! I know some people who are constantly around other’s and I think to myself, when are you ever going to grow, to flourish, to learn about yourself more? This is why our relationships these days are
going down the drain. And when I say ‘enjoy it’, I mean grow to like being by yourself because it’s going to be more frequent when you get older (unless you have 100 kids o_0) and it’s going to be you, your husband/wife, and YOU (and the FEW TRUE friends you’ll have).
Third, I highly advise you to feel the vibes around you. Those gut reactions you get aren’t just there to creep you out (or make you think you’re hungry……idk it happens to me *shrugs*) they’re there to help you fish out who and what’s good for you and what’s not. I read people’s energy levels (I’ll do a series on energy levels later) and if I feel a bit of uneasiness then I know to steer away from them. What I mean by energy levels is what do you feel when you’re around them? Do you feel insecure, uneasy, happy, sad,etc. Your body and spirit tells you these things, you just have to pay attention love.
This may seem like common sense but in reality do we even follow our own sense? I’m just here to reiterate what’s been said and taught.
NOW…..back to my regular posts.lol
Until next time,